What about Baby Daddy Drama?

We're always hearing and joking about Baby Mamas and the drama they can bring into the  father's life if they have moved on.

But we hardly every hear about the Baby Daddy drama. Yes ladies they're out there too. Those crazy men who can't stand it when their eyes have finally open and they realize that they've lost everything that everyone else wants.  Mama and child have moved on. Many have found wonderful men who have stepped up to the plate and became that child's father. Who's grateful to have found such a wonderful woman to be with.  But that dead beat baby daddy just won't leave the new happy family be. Harassing them and then after X amount of years wants to be apart of that child's life.

I only have one thing to say to them as in dead beat baby daddies. Get over it you had your chance to be a man. You boys just wanted to run around playing games and chasing tails. Then when life slaps you in the face and knocks you on your asses, then you want to play daddy. Get a life, move the hell on, and leave those that you thought you could live without, those that you threw away like yesterday's trash alone.They don't need you or want you.

So on behave of those single mamas who have done it on their own. 
For those who did find that special someone who stepped up to the plate and became a father.
For those MEN who found the gems that were thrown out.

Screw you, get a damn life and stop looking for the treasures you treated like garbage.
Thank you very much. Now get lost punk @$$ boys.

Age and style

The other day at work I had seen another one of those older ladies who really need to start dressing their age. I'm sorry grandmami but anyone who's between the ages of 70 to 90 should never ever wear a mini skirt, knee high boots and fishnet stockings. Frankly doesn't matter how "young" you are at heart but at that age some things just need to be covered up and kept that way. Felt a little sorry for her when kids started laughing at her outfit. For that age I would recommend knee length skirts, regular stockings and some flat shoes. There is a way to stay up with the latest fashion without making a fool out of oneself.

Fashion OverBoards

I love the Style network but at the same time I partly blame them for many of the fashion overboards. Yes feathers are in, not to be over done to the point of being confused for a bird. Duck hunting season is in full swing people.

My take on fashion

Since I started working within the clothing department at the store I work for, my fashion sense has become more kine. As in what's new, hot, what not to wear and the fact that many people will wear something just because it was worn by someone famous or some fashion mag said that it was the hottest thing in the fashion world. Guess what, just because someone wore it or some mag said it was, doesn...'t mean that it's going to flatter you at all.
For example when the bullseye released that "Oh I must Missoni" many people were rushing out trying to be 1 of the first to get their hands on it. Frankly I didn't find the line all that great. Many pieces reminded me of a kitchen rug and the others were just not all that interesting. May be it was the colors or the patterns that was chosen for that line, but I just found it lacking.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not judging anyone who choose to follow a certain trend or designer. Just speaking my mind on this matter. I've always chosen my clothes that suit my taste and that will fit properly on my body type and will complement my skin ton. Doesn't matter who makes it, who said it was the "must have of the season" or who wore it.
"Still marching to the beat of my own drum"
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